While many appropriate gifts can
be purchased for Valentine's Day, the most powerful romantic message to
your heart's desire might be delivered with something that costs
nothing or very little.
What can you give of yourself this Valentine's Day, using mostly time
and imagination? To help you decide, www.best-mens-gifts.com has
developed 10 ideas for Valentine's gifts for men or women. Present one
or more of these gifts with or without purchased items and you will put
an ummistakable personal imprint on this special day.
Is there an item belonging to
your sweetheart that needs mending or
repairing? Almost everyone has something that should get fixed but
doesn't for the longest time, mainly because of busyness. But you can
take the trouble to get it done, showing both that you noticed the need
and cared enough to use your own valuable time to arrange or do the
repair.
Schedule a telephone reunion
with an old friend or relative of your
beloved who has been out of touch for some time. Hearing from someone
who meant a lot in days gone by provides an emotional charge.
We all want to have these connections, but we get so busy with everyday
living that we neglect to make them happen. So if you take the
initiative and make the contact, your Valentine will be surprised and
pleased.
What task does your Valentine
least like to do? Is it washing
dishes? Vacuuming? Cleaning the garage? Shopping for groceries?
Excluding undergoing surgery or a visit to the dentist, there has to be
something you can do in place of your sweetheart.
You could do the task without mentioning it and enjoy the surprise when
your work is noticed. If you're worried that your effort won't be
recognized, you could include a subtle hint with your Valentine's card.
This is a high-end version of
Number 3. A Valentine's gift that
keeps on giving will be very welcome. You could promise to walk the dog
every day for a month, cook meals for a week or assume any duties your
darling normally does for a set period.
Just remember, whatever commitment you make must be honored or your
gift will backfire. What could be less romantic than promising
something that doesn't happen?
Cooking a meal is an obvious
gift, but there are some ways to
embellish it. Include special foods or beverages that you have enjoyed
together, especially when you first met or during early dating.
If you fell in love while having pizza and beer, maybe that's your
menu. Tastes and smells locked in our memories evoke powerful emotions,
including romantic feelings. Don't overlook the power of the right
music, either. Which song have you loved to dance to? What was playing
the night you met? Put the music on and relive the wonderful experience.
If you have been together for a
while, here's a way to honor your
experiences: dig out your photos from various events and display them.
Whether it be the wedding, birth of a child, a trip to Hawaii or
camping in the woods, special occasions that you have recorded with
photographs can evoke romantic memories.
Since many photos get filed away indefinitely, Valentine's Day is a
great occasion to give them their due. Combine with suggestion Number 5
and you have the makings of a superb evening.
Is there something you have been
meaning to do, and your Valentine
has been urging you to do (even nagging), but you just haven't managed
to achieve it? Taking a course that you need for career advancement,
perhaps, or getting a tooth chip repaired, or starting an exercise
program.
Everyone usually has an unresolved procrastination, despite friendly
encouragement. So get it done or started, then announce the achievement
or action with your Valentine's card. And don't forget to say something
like "just for you" or "thanks for your wonderful support."
For those with writing skill,
composing a special poem for
Valentine's Day is a natural no-cost gift. But what if you are a
creative klutz with a poetic heart?
Here's a solution: research romantic poetry at the library or online
until you find a poem that reflects your feelings. Then copy it out in
longhand, with a flourish if your penmanship is up to it, on some fancy
paper. (Don't forget to give proper credit to the poet.) This can be
your handmade Valentine's card, or you might include the poem with a
card you purchase.
If your sweetheart has an
extensive collection of music, books,
photos or something similar, you could archive it on your computer and
create a useful gift. Demonstrating your interest in the particular
passion should earn you high marks.
The last suggestion is the deluxe
treatment, but using any or all
of it could enhance Valentine's Day. If there's time in the morning,
offer a full breakfast with some delicacies reserved for special
occasions. If possible, arrange to meet for a fancy picnic lunch, even
if the weather dictates that you eat in the car. Follow up with a
candlelit dinner, where you incorporate one or more of the suggestions
noted above. Next, well, use your imagination.
It doesn't take a lot of money for a memorable Valentine's Day. Just
spend some time and devotion in letting your beloved know how you feel.
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